Showing posts with label Identity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Identity. Show all posts

Monday, January 10, 2011

Home is Where the Heart Is


It is coming up on a year and a half until Greg is done with college. We have given ourselves 2 years before we look to move on to our next adventure. Well, honestly, for me it will be my first adventure, as I still live an hour from where I grew up. I have a list of places in my head that are in the frontrunning to be the place that we call home in just a short time. They are all as different as night and day. I wonder if I have an identity disorder of sorts, as I picture myself differently in every place that I have in mind to move.


In first place, obviously, is Tucson, AZ. Pros: beautiful weather, nice real estate, a wealth of Social Work jobs, laid-back vibe, tons of stuff to do outside and oddly enough, snowboarding in the winter for Greg. Cons: very hot summers, being chased by rattlesnakes and scorpions, drug gangs that favor home invasions more than in other parts of the country. Second place would be Asheville, NC. Pros: Hopping music scene, a plethora of outdoor activities, skiing and snowboarding, laid-back vibe, foodie friendly. Cons: Expensive real estate, no apparent jobs for anyone, chance that I will still have to drive in snow. Tied for 3rd: Boston, MA area/Boulder, CO area. I think these would have pretty similar pros: gorgeous surroundings, many jobs, outdoor activities all year long, the Red Sox (Boston-specific), history! (Boston-specific). Cons: Much higher cost of living.


When we plan out our lives, as much as I feel a calling to New England, I can much more easily see myself moving there in my 40's when I have the capital to live comfortably. Plus a few extra letters after my name than I have now. New England will be the place to continue to vacation in the meantime. Asheville is tempting as well, but I can simply not move anywhere that is known for not having employment, specifically Social Work employment. Tucson is a long distance away, there is no doubt about that. However, it has so much that I am looking for. Warmth. Culture. History. Ample employment. Dog-friendly!


Let me look back on this post and smile in two years when we get to where we are going.